Divorce Support Forums: trying to stay strong

hi i just got to your last post, you're my hero.
no but seriously, you've come so far. your nut sounds just like mine, i'm thinking he'll repeat past behavior also and i just don't see him caring for a demanding 1 yr old and newborn for very long also. i still worry of who he'll leave them with in trying to prove a point. i'm even willing to say no child support or anything if he relinquishes pall parental rights. it's just nota good look even if something were to happen to me , I would not want him to raise the kids. he has 3 others, 9-7-4, the 9yr he hasn't seen since infancy,possibly forbidden to, would love to talk to her, the 7 sees often, mother is still his doormat and the 4 rarely. itseems as though he will not see or have a relationship with his children unless the mother allows him to do whatever he wants, also the 7 yr is the only one he pays no support to and she allows the whenever and short notice pick ups. she also allows him to spend the night and does his papers(correspondence course) for him. but i wasthe one he would wait for in the driveway at 2am w/ the 7 yr old in the car w/ him just to use her to get me to let him in. i don't want him doing the same with our children when he gets into another relationship. and remember their 1 and newborn. i guess i need to start w/ a lawyer, my money is very tight right now, i was left with all the bills . do they take payments, does anyone know? and please don't say legal aid i tried forever to get an appt before they dont even return the call

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