Thank you for responding. I've been in OK since late dec.'07. He is in TX. It is mentioned in my post above. I know about the residence req. & thts why was wondering what would be in my favor & legally should I inform them and all that. You are right, I'll only drag myself more, and I don't even have tht much money. He works for airline, so flying is free for him & his family anywhere in U.S. whereas I'll have to worry abt travelling expenses. I don't know what to do. P.S. we don't've kids.
-------------------- Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
--John Lennon.