Divorce Support Forums: Having trouble getting a divorce

We came over here to Germany and then separated. We don't want to live together, but he's not cooperative about getting a divorce because he needs my health insurance. i've gotten him off my ID card, but can't get a divorce because we no longer live in Virginia and haven't lived in FL for 6 months straight, because I got a job here in Germany. I went back and forth through JAG, lawyers in FL, lawyers in VA and German lawyers. I thought the solution was to get a German divorce, paid a lawyer a lot of money and the judge said no, because I have to support him because he doesn't make enough money and he doesn't have health insurance. So no divorce. According to German law, if we were married over 3 years or so (we were married over 20) I'm always going to be responsible for him. I've got the kids, the job, he's a bum, but I can't get a divorce from him. I don't want to be legally responsible for him any more. VA says we no longer live there, so I can't get a divorce there, FL says I haven't lived there long enough - and won't as long as I've got this good job in Germany, so I can't get a divorce there. Does anyone know how I can get a divorce????? Please help! I've tried JAG, they are no help. Is there a state or country that makes it easier? I'll move if I need to.....

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