I am remarried and my children from my first marriage live overseas which means i only see them every 3 or 4 months. I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years. My new wife is keen to adopt and i am really worried of the impact on my children, especially as they are so far away and see me infrequently. If I saw them every weekend it would be easier, but I am scared that it damages them. I would really love some input or to be pointed to a place which could help me as most resources don't seem to address this issue.