Divorce Support Forums: Starting a new family

[quote]i can't help you, but i commend you for giving this thought first.

my stbx and his gf (she's also still married), committed adultery, he moved her and her 3 kids into the only home my children knew, and now the gf is pregnant. and nobody is even divorced. my children live with me primarily and will usually talk to me about anything, even things they don't like about going to their dad's. they have known about the new baby for a month and have yet to say a word to me about it. i think that says something...that maybe they don't want to talk about it. i don't know. i know it's not advice, just my experience, which obviously my whole situation is different than yours.

but, again, kudos to you for thinking about your children. i hope everything works out for you.

kat [/quote]

adding to what kat wrote.
you are a great guy who cares about his kids!
good for you!
unlike MY stbx who could care less about his own kids
and the impact having his gf and HER KIDS live with together hurts the hearts of our kids
who feel rejected and misplaced.
...oh...im not finalized either..

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taryn.

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