I WAS RECENTLY DIVORCED, JULY 2007..IN THE COURT DECREE IT STATES THAT MY EX CAN CLAIM THE KIDS EVERY OTHER YEAR, YET THEY LIVE WITH ME FULL TIME, I AM EVEN PAYING MY DAUGHTERS COLLAGE BECAUSE HE WON'T HELP. HOW DO I GO ABOUT CHANGING THE DECREE WITHOUT HAVING TO SPEND A TON OF MONEY DOING IT, HE DOESN'T EVEN SPEND TIME WITH THEM AND HAS ALREADY REMARRIED AND WILL BE CLAIMING HER CHILDREN IM SURE..RHODE ISLAND IS A JOKE...IT SEEMS SO UNFAIR.