Thank you, AnswerGuy, for your response. It does not make me feel better, but it is honest, and I thank you for that. I appreciate it.
If he requests the "non-spousal" overnight visit thing, I can live with it, I guess. But I still would like to know if he can stop me from seeing my boyfriend. Right now we have 50/50 custody of our daughter (my ex and I). This is a verbal agreement till we can make it legal. My boyfriend is NOT a pedophile or a sex offender; he was falsely accused of something and it had a huge impact on him. I wouldn't put anyone around my daughter if I felt it was unsafe.