[quote] looking back at how I turned out, I say it was just fine.
So, yeah, I remember it all...from a 9 year olds perspective. [/quote]
That's why I posted this we turned out ok and so will our kids. Things got so bad after my parents split I had night mares and I remember a sheriff giving my mom a shot gun to protect herself in a hotel room. Things were very bad. In a few months everything had blown over and everyone was learning to addapt. All of my parents including step parents were at my graduations and my wedding. We all lived through it and for the better.