[quote]Well...........he says that he will do what it takes and quit his job to be a dad, I do realize that he isn't considering this for the right reasons though, he is doing it not because he really wants them, but because he wants me NOT to have them,and he doesn't want to pay the full amount. I understand he is afraid, and I don't want them not to see their dad, but my feeling is that they will see one another about as often as they do now. It has been this way since they were born. I raised them basically alone, physically anyway. Now all of the sudden he is talking all this stuff, so, anyway, scary [/quote]
He's trying to intimidate you into staying.
And if he quits his job, he's, in all likelihood, going to be living with imputed income. Courts don't like it when divorcing parties willingly lower their income.