I've been divorced from an alcoholic/violent man for about 7 yrs. I have sole custody, though he has visitation rights, provided he does not drink during these visits. He consistantly breaks the rule, and is often intoxicated when visitation is over. He does not pay consistant child support, though he has ample income. I've tried to be nice, and not "make waves" for the sake of my son, however I do not approve of many of the impressions ex is introducing to my son...(ie, racism, intoxication, ect.). I'm very scared to go back through court proceedings, and do not want my son to have to experiance it (12yrs old), however, I know I need to proceed. I'm not familiar with the area, I live in Porter Co. Indiana, and I need a good family lawyer, as well as some encouragement that I NEED to do this. Please help. Thank you