Divorce Support Forums: HELP, need book recommendation

A day or so ago someone recommended a book I want to get. I forgot to write it down and don't remember the thread. Something like Divorce Poison, but my memory could be wrong.

The idea was how to deal with alienating parents, and that sometimes it's necessary to break the silence with the kids about the other parent if the other parent is spewing venom about you on a regular basis. I know there has to be some way to counteract this rather than simply keepign quiet when they say something really wrong about us and hoping that our better example of life will eventually prove out to them that maybe they should have watched and learned more from us... but I'm really against saying anything directly that will say that the other parent is wrong about something.

So I'm dying to read this book and see what they say about HOW to bring up certain things and defend against other wrong impressions that the alienating parent is regularly feeding to them.

But now I don't remember the name of the book.

And if someone remembers it's name/author, do you also know whether it's available in a regular bookstore or is this the type of book I'd have to buy online?

Thanks for anyone who remembers.

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