I have the opposite problem. My children live with their mother and she bad mouths me in front of the kids. They come to my house saying that their mom said I am doing wrong. I don't say one word about their mother. I just let them be kids. It seems hard for me because they're with their mother every night and i'm afraid they won't want to come see me because of all the negativity their mom is putting in their heads. What can I do?