[quote]I have no idea why I need someone else to tell me that this is not OK.
I started calling a while ago.
Thanks! [/quote]
You need to hear it from someone else because you have been hearing from ex for too long that this behavior is appropriate. We all have been told through out the abuse that we are the ones with the problems and after a while we start believing it. It will take time to get reprogrammed but you are on the way now.
Good luck
Christine
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