just a silly question your x or stbx is the ncp and she wanted to enroll her in tumbling? It seems to me she should realize that since you are the cp then she would have to work it out with you too since it is from your home your daughter would have to get there a good part of the time. Unless she was volunteering to get her to every practice.
My daughter is in cheerleading and tumbling and for the last several years I have basically had to be a single Mom anyway so when I enroll her in anything I do it knowing I will have find a way to get her there. My stbx is now about 1000 miles away from us so he is not in the picture except by phone and hopefully financialy. If he was here though I would run it by him. If he could help then great but in the long run I would do what is best for my daughter. I make a lot of sacrifices to get her to her 2 cheer team practices and her tumbling because I know that it is her life.
Christine
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