I paid my attorney over $20,000 over the past 2 years. My divorce has been final for a year now and I still do not get the tuition and child support that my ex was ordered to pay. The court also ordered my ex to pay some of my attorney fees. My ex has not paid ANYTHING. I am now proceding on my own. Check with a women's support organization. Some of them offer legal services at greatly reduced rates. That's what I'm doing now. Good Luck!!!!