"I later learn he paid the outstanding balances by pawning my camera, laptop, and lcd tv. Note, he did not pawn his Xbox 360 or games...just my stuff." "Lately, he has been using my account to cover the bills without my permission and says he accidently did it."
You're right. Dump him. He's using you. There are some things that I could look over, but if my spouse started selling/pawning off "MY" stuff or spending "MY" money to pay off her bills, then I'd certainly be looking into leaving. He's STEALING from his own wife. How low is that?
-------------------- I didn't get married to pay CS later in life.