Hi, new here. My Husband had an affair, I found out he went to a lawyer behind my back. 17 yo daughter wants to live with him and recently lied to me about a meeting the gf. (while he was trying to work things out with me) Daughter and I had a great relationship before this. Why does she support her father so much? I'm the one that is devastated and getting screwed. Daddy is buying her love and there is nothing I can do about that. Its wrong. I am really having a hard time with this. I raised this child and feel like she is kicking me when I'm down. I don't get it. I have always been a good Mom and taught my kids to be independent and honest. This hurts.