I have been married for 17 yrs and have 2 children 15 & 17 life here is lousy and I have been trying to cope with this for the last 5 yrs. Now I am really thinking of getting divorced. My house is always filthy and nothing ever gets done. My wife is a stay home mother and for some reason she doen't want to do anything anymore. I work from 60-70 hours a week to keep us going. Now I feel that it is all for nothing. What should I do. Both my kids are tired of the arguing and conctant fighting I don't blame them either. I think that it is time to end this. Should I? we own a house and I just cannot afford it anymore with me the only one working. I have asked t=her to get a job but she refuses. Can someone help me