We live in Massachusetts and I know that the laws here are much different than in other states. I have already told her that she has to and get a real job but that has not frighten her any. So now it is my children I am worried about. One 17 the other 15. The 17yo will be 18 in july and the other just turned 15. Will they have a choice in where they want to live? I know that I cannot work 2 jobs anymore it is taken a toll on my life and my health. I do know that my kids are concerned about me because they tell me all the time dad are you ok. My son said to me the other night I will understand if you leave and I don't blame you either you seem to do everything around here. So I guess this is where I am right now really thinking about going through with it because there is just no hope I guess.I having been trying to make this work because I do not want my children hurt about it either. I have tried to get her to counseling but to no avail. Feel so lost now and really do not know what to do.