i have been married for 24 yr wife left 1 1/2 yrs ago tried to get her to go to counselor see refused here is my questions we buit the house 6 yrs ago its in her name only i have been living in it since she left and making all payments i told her last week that this marrage must be over since we dont talk anymore and ask her how she would like to split thing 1] give me the house 2] split eveything in half 401s retirements et,etc she would not agree on eather one i ask her for a third solution she did'nt have one were do i go from here