Classic tactic used by most women. I'm surprised you fell for the okie doke. Well, relax a bit. by it being classic, most lawyers know how to down play it. So if you have a good lawyer you will survive. Divorce is a very nasty thing to begin with and even without the protection you never really had a chance.
Funny enough, my X tried to get me like that several of times. Each time I just let her hit me an threaten to call the police. Whent things got really heated I just locked my self in a room and played video games.