Haven't been to domestics because he won't leave so I haven't been through what you have been through. I would just try to hurry the divorce along as fast as possible. I am sure that you will be required to sell the house unless she is able to buy you out, which doesn't sound possible. Does she live with her boyfriend? If she does that might come into play with the spousal support and CS. If you haven't already I would get the discovery process going. He hasn't given me what we requested so we are taking him to court. If you don't mind me asking, who filed first?