Thanks for the reply, I was wondering if I could work out a way of giving in on some stuff in exchange for her signing somthing stating that she dosnt support my buisness or desire to ever play a role in it(which she has told me before).Would a document like this help me? I have a friend who is a partner, soI dont want this to screw up the new buisness. Maybe I should just take over my bills close our joint accounts and handle my own finances. She now has a decent job at a bank so she can handle her own bills, Kinda like whats mine is mine and whats your is yours? Then just try to get along a few more years till the kids get older? Thanks again.