Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
the difference between this and a prostitute is with the prostitute you are on the giving end.Its not the retirement that has me stewed as much as the alimony thing.Like i said, she only took from the marraige not give and for her efforts she gets a nice fat raise and i get a pay cut.I know its the way it is , but it doesnt make it right.Dont get me wrong, i am not out to cut her totally out , but the amount of alimony she will recieve is way more than she deserves.