Divorce Support Forums: Scared. How Do I Tell Him I'm Gone?

The court orders are not worth the paper they are printed on. My husband came by the house 3 times with the police in tow. They never stopped him or took him away. They even allowed his to hug our son. He is extremely violent and has a huge drug problem! I know what you mean about "anger" I would not tell him anything, make "nice" as long as possible. If you are going to remain in the same are (town, city, state) get a storage unit and start moving small things that won't be noticed right away. Just the things you could not live without. Save your money in cash, when you go to the store pull 40 - 80 cash out in addition to the food/supplies that you buy to run the house. Keep this cash in a safe place or with a trusted friend. Once the ish hits the fan all bets are off and it will set off a chain of reaction and will put you into a panic attack. See your doctor and notate the times he makes statements or hurts you. Take pictures and take down notes. These things will help you in court. MOST OF ALL Protect yourself, when it really matters you will be surprised how many people just don't want to get involved. Plan everything you can down to the last minute....keep keys, meds, purse in a safe place at night. Try and think of everything that could go wrong and plan for it.

Sorry to hear you are going through this. :(

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