I've never been over here, I usually just hang out at the life after divorce forum... but I was bored and thought I would just look around at some of the other forums here and after I read a few here - I am beside myself and my heart goes out to you ladies... God, I hope you guys can find some happiness and I want you to know that all men are not like the one's I've read about on here... And I really hope you guys can make it out of the hell you're in... I'll be praying for each and every one of you... -B