Divorce Support Forums: What are my odds?

Ok i left my wife about the second week of January. All i took was my clothes and personal stuff. I had been wanting to go to a marriage counsiler for the last year or so but she would never go. She has mental issues and she has a money spending fetish that almost ended my last two jobs. She will be on her medication for a while, everything is great, and then she stops taking it and everything goes to crap again. So anyway, a week after i left, she tried to kill herslf and almost succeded. After she was in the hospital for a week, my father almost died of an aneurysm and i was 3 hours away for about another week. After she got out of the hospital, i agreed to let my mother in law take our daughter and my wife back to the town they lived in, because at the time i trusted MIL. I had a lot of stuff that i need to deal with at the time and i didn't know what was going to appen with dad. MIL and i even signed a temporary agreement for custody, i was supposed to see my daughter every other weekend. Fast forward three weeks and i keep getting excuses why i can't see my daughter from MIL. After i demand to see her, MIL is avoiding all of my calls. I call my STBX, she says that they have been taking my daughter to a tharapist for "behavior problems", and that the therapist has reccomended that my daughter not see me because it could cause more stress, and i am being accused of spouse and child abuse. Pure BS. Fast forward another two weeks. I have filed for divorce, STBX has agreed to bring daughter for a visit for the weekend. MIL has gone crazy and has threatened to take daughter away on gounds of child abuse. I agree to let STBX stay at the house for the weekend(i know, stupid move, but we were getting along) even though i was not really comfortable with it. We had a good weekend, until sunday. She kept saying we could get back together, and begging and pleading, i made it crystal clear to her that we were not going to get back together. As she was leaving, we got into an argument, lo and behold, i get arrested and charged with assault. Now i am being attacked on every front. She is accusing me of spousal abuse, child abuse, child molestation, and cheating on her with men. She has posted rumors about me being gay all over the internet, to my family and all of our friends. I know now that MIL is an evil, manipulative pycho and she is pulling all of the string because they did the same thing when my STBX's sister got a divorce. All of these charges are bogus, in the 5 years we were together there was never any suspicion of any of this stuff, because it never happened. My question is, who has been through this stuff and what are my chances of walking away without getting pinned with a false charge? There is so much more to this story...

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