[quote]After witnessing the devastation caused when my older sons were restricted from me 24 years ago, it is clear that I need to have primary residential custody to be sure that my one year old son has flexible and equal access to both parents. He is still nursing though he sleeps well through the night without his mother. I am the parent more likely to promote equal access because she prevented him from seeing me for two months without any allegations of abuse. I am looking for any resources available that might help with this cause, including free or low cost advocates. I just reluctantly signed a mediation agreement allowing my son only 3 two hour visits per week, based on local guidelines that recommend it. Are there resources that challenge these antiquated guidelines? [/quote]
Nothing you have posted would indicate that she is unfit. She's the primary, he's still nursing (which is good for him, btw). She has custody now and you have visitation based on the guidelines for babies.
I seriously doubt that you will get primary placement. The courts certainly aren't going to go by what happened with your older sons. Different mother.
Clearly, you don't have a problem with her having custody or caring for the baby, you signed a temporary agreement letting her have temp custody.
She may have prevented you from seeing him because she was afraid that you would take off with him. Or because she was angry. But if she follows the temp order, your argument isn't going to hold water.