I agree with ron (gasp).... to an extent. Nursing mothers can pump and fill bottles that can be "good" for days (refergerated) to months (frozen). And the child is 1 yo? S/He should be on solids primarily by now. I suggest you stop listening toher logic and become educated on babies and thier care. Until you do, you are not going to be prepared to take care of this child. If you do not know the basics of child care, you do not have a chance to get equal visitation.