Divorce Support Forums: He has no job and won't get one among other issues

Well, I have several issues here. First, we are not divorced and have not filed yet. We have only been married a year and a half. He hasn't seen our 7 month old daughter in 3 months, but then he states it's because I won't let him see her. We have set up several different times for him to see her and he dissapears for days...but still uses the same excuse..IT'S MY FAULT. He says I should have called when he didn't show. I did. Then he says he doesn't want me around to see her. And so he'll just wait until the judge orders something. He has 3 other kids, and could care less about this one. I take 100% care of her, daycare, med. insurance, EVERYTHING. Plus, before he left, and the two years we lived together, I paid almost all of the bills, including child support and med ins for the other 3. He moved out for me to beg him back maybe??? We bought a house (I bought the house, loan in my name...but he's on the deed, TX...community property state.) He never moved in, lives with his mom. And he won't get a job. I know for a fact he has turned several down...why?? What does he have up his sleeve? I heard through the grapevine that he intends to try and get spousal support...I make six figures, he makes squat!! Is this even possible??? He is not disabled in any way. I am the one who pays the house note, my car note, all childcare expenses, his car insurance STILL, and all other living expenses that I have. I just realized he took my tax returns when he moved out. He says that I got everything I wanted here...house, furniture, our baby, etc. I PAID FOR ALL!! I had a house before we got married and made the same $ then too. So my question is does he have a leg to stand on with the spousal support? My next is if we have been seperated since January, is he entitled to any of my income, equity in home, etc. earned after that date? And he won't give up his parental rights, but he could care less about her. If he has no job, no home, and can't pay child support or provide ANYTHING for her, what type of visitation will he get? Why should he get any?? AND he drives a brand new $30k truck he financed 6 months ago by stating that he owned his own company and made $100k a year!!! There are so many issues here and his mom (his driving force) is so cruel...and she can talk him into doing things to people just to be hurtful even though it won't gain him anything!! He's begging me to go file and I can't figure out why...I know he's up to something, but what??!!

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