Divorce Support Forums: Need help

So i've been married for 6 years, and have 3 kids. The past 2 years have been hard dealing with stress with work and finances but always felt that there were better days ahead as long as my wife and i stayed focused. last summer she starts to tell me that she's been feeling depressed and neglected by me, that i work too much, etc. i try explaining that i'm doing everything i can, working hard, taking of kids, what more do you want? now in January she says she wants a separation saying she doesnt love me anymore. we agreed to try counseling but she only went to 2 sessions before saying she would rather do individual counseling. now 4 months later she wants a divorce. since i still love my wife and feel that our issues can be resolved these last 4 months have been extremely hard for me. i've lost weight, can't sleep, dont understand why its now too late to work things out. now that i've accepted that theres nothing more i can do to save the marriage i'm wondering what i should do. do i have to move out? i'm the one who takes care of our 2 sons and i pick up our daughter from school every day and have a flexible job which allows me more time with the kids. why should i have to move out? nothing has been filed or signed but should i file? would that make things easier? please help...

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