Divorce Support Forums: My Son hates me since the divorce, since 1998

With Mother's day coming, I still mourn for the lost of my son. He has hated me since I decided to leave his father. He does not want me to speak to him. He will not tell my daughter where he is living because he does not want me to know. He and I were so close when I was living with his father. I feel that he is hurt because he thinks I divorce him too. How can he get this anger out of his heart? When will he want his mother again in his life? It is so hard when mother's day comes.
When my daughter had her wedding last year, he would turn his head away if he caught me looking at him. I was not to speak to him at all per my daughter's request, as she did not want a dramatic public display by her brother.
If I ever had the chance to speak with him, he responded with such hatred and anger in his voice.
He still calls me the [censored]. All I did was divorced his father.
I care very much about my son and wish we could have a life together again. I have a beautiful relationship with my daughter. I am remarried now. His father has moved on with a new girlfriend.

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