for those not following along, my wife is disabled and living with me until a few months, i just filed but she didnt get the papers...so ill have to drive her to the PO to get them when they come. Obviously we have stress in the house.
last night i made comment about the girl that closed her local credit union account....in the past my wife wouldnt have minded this and even would have made the same comment to me....but now she said im tired of you saying stuff like that since we are getting D...ok fine i can get that but she's the one that says she wanted to keep it like it always was until she leaves and not get all pissy with each other :)
...anyway so i just was quiet and stood at the microwave waiting for dinner to heat up..just faced it and didnt see anything of her since she was beside/back of me....she said are you giving me silent treatment..i said nothing..then she playfully touched my butt and back trying to get reaction..nothing and i stood still....now i couldnt see what she was doing and it was quiet so i waited about 30 sec then turned...then felt it...she apparently had taken a needle and put it near but not touching my arm so when i turned, i ran into it..she said sorry she didnt think i would move..what the fluck..who puts a needle to someones arm to get attention like that. i said that is a stupid thing to do to get attention, there are other ways of doing it...i said i'm sure people will love to hear you are sticking needles in me now....she said sorry she just was trying to get a reaction out of me...then i gave her silent treatment and she said are you still mad at me,, i said no but she knew i was and said so..then 1 hour later said will you be mad all night..i said no..see she has zero contact with the outside world but i can sit there all night and not say a word but it kills her when i dont talk to her..but shat under this circumstance who would blame me for not wanting to talk to her? now this week she got an earful from her sis who said her bf was a total jerkface so my wife isnt looking forward to moving in with them but hey is that my problem..no...and why stick a needle in me to take it out on me?
so WTF is going on..have any of you woman on here done something like this and can you explain your behavior if you did?
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
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