Divorce Support Forums: Stock Options question

I can understand your frustration- especially not knowing all of the details. I have a career and have invested so much into our current home (everything here is mine, down to the dishes- all premarital property technically) and if we went out seperate ways, I dont think he'd be so fair about it.

He always has told me "what yours is mine and whats mine is mine".

I understand how men are generally treated unfair in divorce, when they are the "bread winner"- but the flip side is a women who had assets that I used to front his financial endeavors because I was told it was for "us". Then, be left wondering if I can get back what was mine. My concern is- because these options were earned before me- if they are untouchable despite any cash I gave. And, because I give- that means gift and I dont see it back?

While you may judge me and say I'm a gold digger and planned on marrying him to get his $$$- I could say the same about him.

Why cant a man be at fault? I just feel the sterotype of that its "always" the woman is unfair.

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I just wanted to love and be loved

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