My bad. I forgot to include that I was standing in the doorway when she got off the phone. She asked, 'how much did you her?' 'All of it.' I replied. She claims she did this because she didn't think I would marry her if she had told me the truth, because she new how badly I wanted to have a child. I had just recently learned that a little I had been taking care of since birth(2yr.) from a previous relationship was not mine. She wants to go to consuling, but if she can lie for this long about something so big how can I ever trust her again?