Divorce Support Forums: My First Post. I'm Stressed And Could Use Guidance

I appreciate all of your responses. I don't expect to ask her parents to testify for me, but I thought if it ever did go down that road (court) they could be deposed and forced to either lie or tell the truth. They are very good people and love us both. I know it's more to do with their daughter, but I'm not acting like the vengeful angry person. I have communicated a lot with her parents, and they both know what I am putting up with. Maybe I'm gullible, but I think they would tell the truth about their knowledge of her actions and that I've picked up a lot of the slack. My wife has probably gone out/done overnights with friends 10 times in a year. She's cleared it with me, but it is what it is. I've been the one to NEVER go out, let alone overnight. My wife travels, on average, every several months for a week. I also didn't mean to word it as "my wife can ask me to see him". I understand the law/rules on a legal arrangement. I just meant that I'd like to adhere to whatever that is with me as primary parent on paper. IF she wants something additional to those rules I can be the one to allow it or not. I would most likely allow it. I'm not looking to stick it to her. She has always done what she's wanted, but I'm tired of her taking advantage and stretching my limits. No one seems to be moving out, and I'd never be an idiot to abandon my house. She moved everything she had in our bedroom to the guest room. This is the second time she's done that in a month. She can have the doghouse room. I actually slept in it for a couple weeks as we were going through trouble as I never knew she was in the middle of an affair. Doesn't that suck?! I'm the one that was losing sleep tossing and turning in the guest room while she was sleeping with her co-worker. I was under the impression she was just trying to "find herself". Oh well.

Thanks, Everyone.

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