The way our parenting time rotation works out, he has our child on Mother's Day and I on Father's Day. I sent an email to him a few days ago to see if he wanted to work something out to make a swap so that we could each have her on the respective parent's day.
I have heard nothing from him - and based on past history when it comes to this type of thing, I don't expect to either. My take is that he takes "no contact" a little TOO far.
So questions about gifts, reconciliation and whatnot aren't even on my radar screen....
In the meanwhile, on days that ARE my parenting time, my attitude shall be "EVERY day she's with me is Mother's Day!" and not get wrapped around an axle about a day which benefits the retail industry.