Kind of along the lines of Pat's response, I kind of made the realization this weekend that I need to quit waiting for signs. I need to start sending out signs and I need to just take the bull by the horn (when it comes to dating and life) and go for what I want. I guess in this case, when I see a women sending out signals, taking initiative, etc., I find it totally sexy and attractive. I love women with confidence. I love initiative. I can't help but being sucked in by that kind of women but having been out of the dating scene for so long, I don't quite now how to respond or respond quickly enough if I do.