I have been thinking the exact same thing... I know that I am not ready for a relationship, but I want someone to take me out to dinner, bring me home, take me to bed for hours of sex, and then I want them to spend the night and just cuddle. I am tired of sleeping alone. I would not want them to be there in the morning- they wouldn't even have to leave a note- just disappear before the sun rises. Does this mean I am a bad person? It is so out of character for me, but I have been known to do some crazy things during this whole process...