Pic - do not worry about the slow and steady. That is my way too. Heck I now at 11 months POST divorce (10 months since she moved), and no real dates for me. I have not looked.
Like you my efforts have needed to be focused in finding myself and rebuilding.
Nothing wrong with that.
-------------------- Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.
Dr. Seuss