[quote]I have only 1 child and have been with my boyfriend (not the father of my child) for 10 months today. My boyfriend now lives in spartanburg which is an hour and 1/2 away from where me and my ex currently live. He is in a posistion where he cannot move down here and i am strongly considering moving there. [/quote]
A'sMama-
Why would you uproot your child from his father for a BOYFRIEND?? Is this a fiance? What if you move there, and then he dumps you. Then what kind of pickle would you be in. I can see why the father of your child does not want you to move. It's not for a better job. It's for a boyfriend! stay put for your child's sake. At least they'll see their father on a regular basis.