I know it's hard and you want to "fix" this as soon as possible, but if nothing else........she doesn't seem to be ready to discuss it let alone make any decisions.
Keep in contact. But also be aware that if you are the one constantly calling her, and she is promising to call you, and not following through...........then that's a huge red flag right there.
Take as good care of yourself as you can. And stay open to working on things, but if you're the only one making the effort.......it isn't going to fly.
I'm sorry you are having a rough time.
-------------------- Anne Marie
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Been there, done that, got the t-shirt:)