Is the lawyer correct in that I must wait until my wife delivers the baby she has conceived with *another* man she has lived with for 18 months, before I can even *file* the petition for divorce?
>>>>>>>> Yes , no matter the circumstances , you are the legal father of this child . Some states will refuse to allow a divorce until matters of paternity are settled .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov