This book will focus on the rights each spouse has under certain laws, situations, and circumstances, and how the division of the property will be decided by the court or through negotiation.
"Besides that, all this time I was working for free anyway"
I didn't realize someone would consider raising children a job, to be paid later. I've never considered parenting to be a job, but a privilige to be cherished and done to my best ability. Money has never been a part I've even considered.
As for the 2 stepchildren, they are not his financial responsibility. They are yours, and the father of those children.