I have been married for 17 years and am 43 year young. I worked for GM and recently took the buyout they offered for health reasons. We paid off his car and motorcycle and bills and two days later he says he wants a divorce. I told him that I want the money I forked out for his toys and he tell me that I paid them of my own free will!!! I live close to monroe Mi can anyone tell me of a good lawyer and would the items that I paid be marital expenses and I should get at least half back?????