One of my friends is convinced at this point that I was the rebound guy. This is certainly a possibility. Heck of a long rebound though...
In light of her graduation coinciding with the situation, perhaps "greener"...or "different" to make myself feel better...pastures is the issue. There is a thread in the Life After forum that may actually explain the heart of my issue. As much as I hate to admit it, this whole thing might come down to differing views on what love is.
Anyway, I went to her graduation on Friday. Probably the most painful night of my life (so far). Afterwards, I told her I would let her have her space, and that if she wants to talk she should call me. Haven't heard from her since. She says she is confused, that she doesn't know what she wants. But at this point, it feels like she is just waiting for me to give up.