As I reread my reply, it comes off as tacky even to myself, when in actuality I was agreeing to a point.
I agree that roles have definately changed and that it affects men in alot of areas. Some of them good, some bad, some really bad.
I also agree that some women feel or revert to the same kind of aversions for some of the types of men that are around. The kind that dont want to be in the traditional roles. My ex masculinity was never ground into the dirt because I was a more "liberal" authoritive figure. I wasnt. Im not. Im very traditional and the lack on his part to even just be the male figure in responsibilities and a partner turned me off to him in more ways than one.
Intimacy became non-existant and then the act just completely disappeared due to my choice. It happened over time till I wanted absolutely nothing to do with the physical aspect of our relationship.
Maybe, the view of the men being more of the victim is more prominent in other areas, but my situation is more common here from experience.
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It's like picking up trash in dresses..."