saamrodi - I can definitely understand. As I have mentioned on here many times, a lot of what I "preach" is to the "choir". I'd say 99% (or more) of the people who come to this site are the "victims" in their failed/failing relationships, so much of what I say falls on deaf ears. I've accepted that reality when I post here.
However, sometimes there are those who - due to their failed/failing relationships - like to place the blame on their partner in which it isn't so much a single relationship failure as it is outside forces that cause the relationship to fail - like women taking on more traditional male roles. Again, hoorah for them! Only, don't expect a lot of men to celebrate their increasing "liberation" with them. Its hard to draw an analogy, but it would be like men wedging themselves more and more into female roles (some, with the aid of legislation) while at the same time losing much of their masculinity in the process. And, perhaps with this study, we are beginning to witness the cusp of this affect.