[quote]Honey, be careful. Since you are the one wanting out, wife could become agitated and attempt to use your daughter to hurt you. My s2bx and I also adopted a daughter. I love her more than my own life. My s2bx does things to hurt her because at times he can't get to me. Get you a good layer, a very good one. And be prepared for the fight of your life, [/quote]
TY for your reply. I don't believe she would do that; she is a good person. Fact is, I do not love her anymore and I believe the feeling is mutual. Guess we keep going out of habit or maybe comfort level. Maybe for our daughter.
Secondly and FWIW, there has never been infidelity on my part and I would bet on hers either. Just "irreconcileable differences I guess. I do find myself fantasizing of life without her and I gotta admit, it sounds good. I suppose counseling may be in order but I don't see my feelings changing so why waste the time and money. There is no attraction anymore.
So I am in a major bind. Now I realize why they call it the "Institute of Marriage". Send me to the nearest institute.