[quote] The x could lay there completely nood, but the emotion, the passion, all the necessary DRIVE and DESIRE had vanished. [/quote]
That just means Hardknox, that the chemistry you once had with your X had been snuffed out. And that can happen. It's life itself.
That does not mean that the candle itself was snuffed out and melted down. (I'm really sorry, I was just trying to think of a polite and ladylike way to put it. So candle it will have to be.)
This thread blames women as the reason for all 'candle meltdowns'. There are plenty of other reasons for that.
Physical health ones, mental health ones, substance abuse ones etc. They haven't even been mentioned. Just women.